Division of labor

My husband and I had a very good talk a few nights ago about our experiences at the hospital. He readily agreed to be the "unconditional support cheerleader" and let the medical pros be in charge of telling what is going wrong. I also had a talk with our doula about it, to make clear that we will have a happier marriage and a better birth experience if we can count on her to be the project manager so my husband can let that part of the labor/birth/hospital experience go. So we done good, and I feel much better about the whole adventure.